Compassionate End-of-Life Doula & Grief Support in Los Angeles

What is an end-of-life doula? What do they do?

As an end-of-life doula, I am a non-medical part of your care team, complementing your medical, spiritual, and community support as you or a loved one plan for the end of life. Much of my work is education — helping demystify death and dying through both virtual and in-person guidance.

What services does a doula provide (and not provide)?

I offer spiritual, emotional, and practical support — a grounded presence during advance care planning, respite for loved ones, legacy and memory projects, help with practical and household tasks, and bedside support in the final weeks and days of life. This work is non-medical, so I complement rather than replace your clinical care team.

What kind of training do end-of-life doulas complete?

There is no universal certification for end-of-life doulas, but many training programs exist across the country with varying formats, focuses, and depth. I am always glad to talk through my own training and experience so you can decide what matters most to you.

Are Doulas covered by insurance?

Costs vary widely; doulas are generally hired privately and not covered by insurance, with flat, hourly, package, or sliding-scale fees depending on the services. I am happy to talk through my pricing early on so you can decide whether I am the right fit for you.

Can a doula help with documenting my final wishes?

Yes — I can help you identify and complete the advance care planning documents needed in your state, though some paperwork such as a POLST/MOLST form requires a clinician. Any adult over 18 is encouraged to have their end-of-life wishes documented.

Can a doula support people with Medical Aid in Dying MAiD or Voluntary Stopping Eating and Drinking VSED?

Yes – I am educated in supporting options such as Medical Aid in Dying or VSED.

How many hours do doulas spend with someone they are supporting?

It depends entirely on your needs — some people meet for an hour a week to work through paperwork, while others need more time as they approach the end of life. Part of my role is helping you figure out what level of support feels right.

What should I be asking a potential doula?

Many doulas, myself included, offer a free consultation, so feel free to ask anything that helps you find the right fit. A few questions worth asking:

• What is your goal with your practice?

• How did you get into this work?

• Have you been trained, and do you engage in ongoing professional development?

• What is your level of bedside/care experience?

• How many deaths have you supported or been present for?

• What are your available hours for contact?

• What is the scope of your services?

• What is your pricing structure?

• Do you have a sample contract I can view?

• Do you have back-up doulas or associates you work with in case you are unavailable?

• Are there any end-of-life options (such as medical aid in dying) or particular situations that you are unable to support your clients through?

First things first, don't be nervous. I offer a free end-of-life care consultation to explore your needs and see how I can best support you and your loved ones. Whether you're navigating a recent diagnosis, preparing for future care, or simply seeking guidance, this conversation is a gentle first step.

We’ll talk about what brought you here, what feels most pressing right now, and what’s at the top of your priority list. There is no agenda to follow and nothing you need to prepare—just an open, compassionate space to begin.

Is it too early to reach out?

No—there is no “too early.” Many people reach out simply because something has shifted: a diagnosis, a question, a feeling they can’t quite name yet. You don’t need clarity or certainty to begin. Reaching out early can actually create more ease, allowing space to explore options, values, and wishes before decisions feel urgent.

What if I don’t know what kind of support I need?

That’s completely okay—and very common. You don’t need to have language for what you’re experiencing or a plan in mind. Part of my role is to help you gently uncover what support might be most helpful right now, whether that’s emotional presence, guidance around end-of-life planning, or simply a space to talk and be heard.

Do you work alongside doctors, hospice, or other care providers?

Yes. I view end-of-life and grief support as collaborative. I work alongside medical teams, hospice providers, caregivers, and family members, helping to bridge communication and ensure that emotional, spiritual, and personal needs are honored alongside medical care. My role is non-medical and complementary, focused on presence, advocacy, and support.

Through deep listening and compassionate presence, I offer end-of-life support that creates space for honest, meaningful conversations about dying—helping to ease the isolation that so often surrounds this time. Support can begin days, weeks, or even years before death, whether you are navigating a serious diagnosis, preparing for future care, or seeking guidance for yourself or a loved one.

Together, we co-create an environment that feels peaceful and comforting, shaped by your needs and values. I provide non-medical end-of-life care, offering gentle guidance around physical connection and, regardless of belief system, I facilitate moments of meaning through prayer, meditation, music, silence, or ritual. I also offer emotional and grief support for individuals, families, and caregivers, holding space for the full range of emotions that may arise—grief, love, fear, even laughter—as we honor the full range of emotions when saying goodbye.

Hospice provides essential medical care, including pain and symptom management, nursing visits, and clinical oversight.

As an end-of-life doula, I offer non-medical emotional and relational support that complements hospice. My role focuses on extended presence, emotional companionship, guidance for families, vigil sitting, and support through anticipatory grief and final transitions.

Hospice tends to the body.
A doula tends to the human experience of dying.

I work alongside hospice teams and do not provide medical care, give medical advice, or replace hospice staff. Many families find that having both hospice and doula support helps them feel more prepared, less alone, and better supported during this time.

Below is a general overview of my offerings. Every situation is unique, and pricing may be adjusted based on individual needs, duration, and level of support required.

End-of-Life Support
Non-medical, emotional, and practical support for individuals, families, and caregivers

Hourly End-of-Life Support: $75/hour
Ongoing presence and support for individuals and families navigating serious illness, end-of-life planning, or active dying. Sessions may include emotional support, facilitated conversations, ritual, legacy reflection, or caregiver guidance.

Advanced Planning Consultation: $199
A dedicated session focused on clarifying wishes, values, and priorities related to end-of-life care. This includes creating or updating healthcare directives that reflect not only medical decisions, but also emotional, spiritual, and personal values. This package includes a finalized document for your records.

5-Hour and 10-Hour Support Packages:
Discounted packages are available for those seeking ongoing end-of-life or caregiver support. These packages offer continuity, flexibility, and deeper relationship-based care.

Support may include:

· What to expect during the dying process

· Personalized vigil planning

· Ritual preparation

· Emotional and spiritual support tools

· After-death care guidance

Vigil Planning & Presence: Customized
Personalized planning and support for the final days or hours of life, including creating a peaceful environment, supporting loved ones, and holding presence at the bedside. Pricing is based on timing, duration, and level of involvement.

Grief Support
For individuals, friends, and families

Grief Support Sessions: $100/hour
One-on-one or group-based grief support for those navigating loss, anticipatory grief, caretaker fatigue, or life after death. Sessions provide a compassionate space to process emotions, explore meaning, and tend to ongoing connection.

If cost is a concern, please feel free to reach out. I am committed to meeting people with care and honesty, and we can explore options together.

I provide affirming, inclusive end-of-life care for individuals and their families, honoring diverse identities, cultures, and relationships. My approach ensures that everyone—regardless of background, belief, or orientation—feels seen, valued, and supported throughout the dying process. You are welcomed exactly as you are, with respect, dignity, and compassion at every step of the journey.